My Team – NWSL 2018

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So.

After the double heartbreak of losing FCKC and then Boston I said I wouldn’t support a team in NWSL for 2018. It’s too soon. I just can’t turn my support on and off like that. So no, I’m not supporting an established team this season, but I am supporting a team.

I made my own. Not like a fantasy team or anything (but I will have a fantasy team as soon as NWSL Fantasy League is in action), it’s a team made of players I like to watch and see what they can do as individuals in their teams.

Here goes.

Starting 11:

Smith

Quinn     Erceg     Sonnett     Gilliland

Tymrak     Mewis,K     LaBonta

McCaskill     Stengel     Rapinoe

Subs:

GK    Bledsoe/Eckerstrom

D       Carpenter/Frisbie/Gibbons

M       Andrews/Laddish/Nairn/Weimer

F       Abam/Groom/Jenkins/Jordan/Leroux/Ohai

 

I tried to make it as much like a team as possible. I stuck to the roster rules for number of players. Fortunately, I like quite a few former Breakers, so my total is 20 + 6 Breakers. I have at least 1 player from every team, some federation players, some internationals.

I think everyone I picked could be a starter on the right club, but I had to choose a starting XI. I think they would make a competitive team in the league.

Some of these players are sentimental favorites and some are up & comers I’m interested in seeing mature, but all-in-all I think this will be a fun bunch.

If you’re in my boat and can’t pick another league team to support, try making your own. This was an unexpectedly cathartic experience.

Of course I have to say that I think the best way for the league to continue to grow is if fans pick a team already in the league to support and stick with them through thick and thin. I’ll get to that point again, but this year I think this plan works for me.

HAPPY NWSL EVE, Y’ALL!

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There’s No City Like Kansas City

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Way back when, in 2012, when the NWSL was announced and Kansas City was going to be one of the teams, the very first supporters group was formed. They called themselves the Blue Crew and I was all-in. The fact that I lived 600 miles away didn’t even enter the equation, I was going to have a pro women’s soccer team to support!

I’ve supported teams in all of the pro women’s leagues, but this was different. I could actually attend these games. I mean what’s a 9+ hour drive one way? Piece of cake for someone who likes to drive like me. So I scoured the internet for information. I bought season tickets. I kept in the loop for the supporters group. I was seriously all-in.

That was then, this is now. The FC Kansas City Blues are no more. No more long rides through Kansas. No more tailgates. No more bleacher seats and blazing sun. No more meet ups with a supporters group who accepted me even though I was old enough to be the mother of many of them.

It is very hard to accept that the city FCKC represented doesn’t want them. A city that wants to be known as “Soccer City, USA” can’t be bothered to fight to keep a team that has won championships while bearing their name. FC Kansas City. Doesn’t get more Kansas City than that.

I’m disappointed, and sad, and angry. I feel let down by the powers that be, by the league owners who supposedly vetted the owner that couldn’t be bothered to properly support the team he bought. By the people of Kansas City who couldn’t bother to show up for 2 hours on the day to show a little love to the team. By the other pro sports teams in KC who already have their share of the big pie yet couldn’t be bothered to share a crumb with FCKC. I’m sad for the truly dedicated people who worked for the team who really gave it their all to make this work. There are some really good people in the trenches who I hope can find a place in WoSo to keep doing what they do with such passion.

And I’m angry. Oh, am I angry. At everything..and nothing. At fans who didn’t show up, and advertisers who didn’t either. I’m angry that some guy with a checkbook bought the team and then hung them out to dry. At the owners who thought this was a good guy to sell a team to, to entrust with the livelihood of the players and the hearts of the fans. At SKC who could have done more to partner (not own) with FCKC to further both their interests, but didn’t. At every person who has ever said that women’s sports are less than. Tell that to the people who are losing their team and the people who are losing their jobs.

I’d like to thank every person who has been involved with FCKC. Every one. You made my experience unique and one I won’t forget.

And to KC Blue Crew – you all will hold a special place in my heart for your acceptance and your dedication to this team and this city.

I fell in love with FC Kansas City for many reasons and for as many reasons their demise breaks my heart.

#TNCLKC

Lifetime Kickin’ It To Florida Championship Weekend Sweepstake

Sounds great right? Who wouldn’t want 4 tickets, airfare and accommodations to the NWSL Championship. Hey I’d even take a swag bag or a jersey (also prizes). Seems sounds great is all we’ve got. I’ve searched high and low on My Lifetime and NWSL Soccer for any active link to the contest, or the official rules, or anything that says the contest even existed. Nada.

I mean there are mentions of it if you google, but they seem to be limited to sites that aggregate sweepstakes for those who make that their thing. But if you’re looking for anything official, not a character to be seen on any site you might think would be an official tie-in.

And you might rightfully ask why do I care? Well, I – and many others who inevitably entered wanting to have a trip to the Championship for free – would like to know if I won, or they won, or anyone won, or if the sweepstake was even a thing. I understand that all sweepstakes reserve the right to terminate the sweepstake if they suspect something untoward was taking place, like cheating the system to get entries you’re not entitled to. I’m not naive enough to think that doesn’t happen, but most sweepstakes will at least post something explaining that. Not this sweepstake.

So I guess I’m just throwing this out there to see if anyone has heard or seen anything about the sweepstake. If you have, hit me up here or on twitter @Deegley. If I won, I have a few extra tickets 🙂

When the Boot is on the Other Foot

For the record I am not a Hinkle fan, her play is good, but hasn’t ignited any passion in me. I am also not a fan of the religious arguments against homosexuality. I am ALSO not a fan of people who are gay or are gay allies using Hinkle’s bowing out of the upcoming friendlies as fodder for their hate.

-First off, we know nothing of her personal reasons for not participating and all speculation is just that. If no one will go on record, credible sources nor Hinkle herself, then it’s all just speculation.

-Secondly, the hate coming from gays and allies is just plain ugly and wrong and would be vilified by same if directed at them. It is not OK to do it to us and it’s not OK to do it to them.

-Third and last, actions and beliefs do come with consequences, IF Hinkle is acting on her beliefs then not playing for the NT during these friendlies is the consequence. I don’t think anyone would agree it’s a minor consequence given what players endure to get a call-up. The consequence should not be, should never be, the hate I have seen directed at her. It makes me very sad and a bit angry that the very people who preach “Love is Love” stoop to such disgusting lows to attack someone who doesn’t preach hate, she does after all play with gay players, but who is sticking to her beliefs and not promoting something she doesn’t believe in. However much I might disagree with her beliefs, and trust me I do, I also have to respect her for following them to this extent.

If you have been one of the people on social media making memes, saying she doesn’t deserve another call-up, or just generally being ugly about this, please reconsider your actions. If directed at the gay community much of them would be considered bullying and rightly so. Don’t be THAT person.

You can @ me if you like, but as always, please be civil.

A L💙VE LETTER

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My Dearest FC Kansas City,

We met over five years ago. Me, a long time enthusiast looking for a team to love and you, a new team full of heart and enticing promise. It wasn’t love at first sight, not for me anyway. You were young, inexperienced and distant. All qualities that should have sent up red cards, but there was something about your willingness to reach out that drew me in. I played along willing to see where this could go, encouraged by your commitment to grow and keep trying to be better than yesterday. Our relationship became one of comfort and stability, mutual respect and fondness. Not the stuff of steamy romance novels but more like nights spent on the couch watching rom-coms.

I was happy, but something was missing. Even though you brought me the stars it just wasn’t enough. I wanted more. I wanted you to recognize our relationship for what it was. To be open and honest about who I was to you. For four years I waited..and waited..and waited..and waited. I dropped hints, then I dropped some more. I went public with my disappointment all the while hoping that my choice to stay committed to you was the right one. Then it happened.

You had a major change in attitude, you decided I was as important to you as you were to me. You finally saw me for who I truly am.  I would like to think you’ve loved me all along, but I can’t go that far. But you love me now. Openly. Freely. And that is the most important. Sometimes the journey is a long one, but the destination is all worth it.

So my dear FCKC – owners, staff, coaches, players, volunteers – I love you. Without reservation. Without equivocation. Entirely. To be recognized as who I am is all I’ve hoped for over this long courtship. You have my heart.

 

Openly yours,

Diane

 

 

A Few Words About A Little Field

Yes, this is about WNY v SEA and the little field.

I initially stated that I thought playing on a smaller than NWSL standard field wasn’t a problem, and I still think that. I think asking for and having granted an exception under the initial condition of a field similar to one the Rhinos or WNT played on, in itself, wasn’t disrespectful of the game or the player/fans. But what it devolved to and how decisions were made that chipped away at the standards of the league are the problem.

At some point a person or people decided it was OK not to sod a portion of the infield and NWSL rightly said no deal. At that point is when this all went wrong. How it was handled after that is what should come into question. Every person involved with the playing of that game bears some responsibility for it happening, from NWSL staff to a team GM, to both coaches, the refs and yes, even the players. If any of them had voiced serious concern or exerted any push back the game may not have happened.

It brings to light an all to often thought, one not made necessarily consciously, but one that is still there under the surface – it’s OK, it’s just the women. For so long the women’s game has accepted less than in order to survive that it’s become OK to look the other way when something even so obviously wrong, like the final size of the field for this game, happens. Everyone says “it’s not my place to stop the game” well, yes it is. It’s the place of everyone involved to speak up and stop something wrong. If any of the involved individuals had said “I will not play on this field” the game could have been stopped. The ensuing embarrassment and bad publicity could have been avoided. It would have gotten messy after that, but the game wouldn’t have happened and the respect the players need to feel would have been preserved. From all accounts no one did and THAT is the problem, not the size of the field.

It’s easy to say that Jeff Plush is responsible as the commissioner of NWSL, or the GM of the Flash, or Coach Riley of the Flash, or the referees are responsible, but the real truth is that everyone is responsible and everyone needs to do better. The players themselves are not absolved of responsibility and neither is Coach Harvey. Everyone knew in their gut this wasn’t right and yet everyone went along. The game was not played under protest as is often the case when someone feels egregiously wronged. The game was played and no prior public mention was made in protest. You might say that the players were just doing their jobs, but standing up for what’s right is part of every human’s job regardless of your vocation. If players want respect it’s been demonstrated again and again in the women’s game that you have to demand it, not sit on the sideline and wait for it to come to you.

New information may come to light, an apology has already been made and promises to not do it again, and if that changes my perspective I’ll update.

Just my thoughts on the little field in Rochester.

The Long and the Short of It

WNY v SEA was contested on a very small field tonight  – although within FIFA regulations, if not NWSL . I was gonna let this go, but decided I needed to at least set the record straight about where I was coming from. Whether you agree or not isn’t an issue to me, just that you know how I got here.

In my timeline on twitter, and I want to stress MY timeline,  Jeff Kassouf tweeted that playing on WNY’s field was “crazy”.

He has a following and of course word spread. More than a few people commented asking why the game was being played on this particular field and other questions about the venue. This prompted me to tweet this:

Typo aside, my tweet was a simple observation that many people tweeting in reply to Kassouf were critical without being informed about the venue. My feeling was – and is – when being critical of anything/or anyone, know something about what/who you’re being critical of. The venue change was announced two weeks ago giving anyone who cared ample time to ask questions about configuration, size, surface quality, etc.

My observation was not well received. That’s how it goes sometimes.

If I thought that was bad, the reaction after I tweeted this –

 

-was worse.

At the time of my tweet, and really still, I didn’t see the harm in one game played on a smaller than NWSL standard field. At the time there were no details about emails to coaches or meetings with referees or questions of safety from staff or players. It was a venue change for a team that couldn’t use their home field for one game due to scheduling conflicts. In the grand scheme of things, to me, this is small potatoes. I don’t think anyone from owners to refs to NWSL reps intended to disrespect players by asking them to do this one time for the good of the schedule.

The reaction of the players is a whole other thing. I think their reaction to this field is indicative of their frustration with so many other things that need to be rectified in relation to them. And although I support the USWNT players in their pursuit of equal pay for equal play, I find it a little self-serving that they chose now to chime in for their NWSL counterparts. This just gives them more to fight USSF with in their CBA negotiations, not necessarily a bad thing, but still self-serving.

Do I think the players deserve better? Yes, absolutely. I also think that even though this is the 3rd iteration of a league it doesn’t mean they’ll get everything right the first time. They did the wrong thing for the right reason, something I know I’ve done in my life more than once. So maybe that’s why I don’t think this is the big issue it’s blown up into, I think it’s more of a bellwether for the ills within the league in regard to player relations.

Many parties to this game had a chance to stop it, and none did, this says more to me than the fact that the venue was set up the way it was in the first place.

So the long of it is written above, the short of it is – life is complicated..and so is WoSo.